| Breaking up with your boyfriend? Are you having | | | | know that you are moving on with your life. |
| trouble getting over a relationship? Constantly | | | | * Sixth, start a new activity. For example, have you |
| wondering about what you can do to get your ex | | | | been wanting to learn how to play tennis, run, exercise, |
| boyfriend back? | | | | learn yoga, etc. but have not had the time? Now you |
| If you are like many women, you are probably | | | | do have the time, since he is no longer in your life. |
| behaving in the wrong way. The wrong signals can | | | | * Seventh, keep doing your own thing. Think and focus |
| cause your ex boyfriend to pull even further away. | | | | on ways that you can improve your own life. This |
| The following are 7 steps that you can take to get | | | | requires a lot of discipline so that you will not get back |
| your ex back. | | | | into the same rut before you broke up. |
| * First of all, stop calling your ex boyfriend. You might | | | | If you take these 7 steps, your ex boyfriend is going to |
| be trying to make him feel sorry for you but too much | | | | undergo a change in how he feels about you. You will |
| communication makes you seem needy and gives him | | | | no longer be in contact with him and you will become a |
| the upper hand. In fact, you might want to change your | | | | mystery to him. He most certainly will not be sure what |
| phone number and send it to all of your family and | | | | you are doing or feeling. This is uncertainty will work in |
| friends except him. | | | | your favor. You are causing your ex boyfriend to |
| * Second, no more emails or IM's to your ex. | | | | actually miss you, which would not be possible if you |
| Constantly writing him e-mails or text messaging him | | | | are pursuing him or keeping things the same. |
| sends him the message that you are trying to keep | | | | The key to this 7 step strategy is to work with human |
| things the same as they were before your break up. | | | | nature, not against it. Remember, there must no |
| * Third, pack it all up. Everything. All the stuff he gave | | | | communication between you and your ex boyfriend. |
| you, the jewelry, the clothes, whatever, pack it up and | | | | Keep your focus on ways to improve your own |
| put it away. | | | | personal life. Do not focus on your previous relationship. |
| * Fourth, change your look. Go out, buy a new outfit, | | | | This is going to be a challenging time, and it is going to |
| try something different. Change your make up. Color | | | | require discipline to prevent you from returning to your |
| your hair differently. | | | | old ways. Make yourself appear mysterious and your |
| * Fifth, see other people. I am not saying that you need | | | | ex boyfriend will be reminded why he loved you in the |
| to find another boyfriend to make your ex jealous. But | | | | first place. Play hard to get (but don't over do it). Let |
| you do need to socialize and let your ex boyfriend | | | | him make the first move on getting back together. |